<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[the feminist librarian]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://thefeministlibrarian.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Anna Clutterbuck-Cook]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://thefeministlibrarian.com/author/feministlib/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[quick hit: questions from a&nbsp;three-year-old]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Let me be upfront about this: I am <em>not</em> &#8212; I repeat NOT &#8212; a fan of the genre of writing/commentary that highlights the &#8220;cute&#8221; things children say as an underhanded way of making fun of their understanding of the world. I don&#8217;t know about you, but I was always terribly insulted as a child when I said something I thought was astute and grown-ups laughed at me (I&#8217;d argue that affectionate laughter was worse than mean laughter &#8212; it meant they weren&#8217;t taking you seriously. Which, as a kid, sucks.)</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m sharing this in the spirit in which the original poster, <b>Molly @ first the egg</b> seems to have written it: damn respect for a child who can ask us to re-evaluate our understanding of the world so profoundly by <a href="http://www.firsttheegg.com/2010/02/tricky-questions-my-three-year-olds-burst-of-curiosity-about-death/">asking a few simple and completely logical questions</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>During the last week of 2009 and the first of 2010, our son Noah asked the following questions:</p>
<p>    * What are some people real and some people not real?<br />    * Why do characters do real things? (Contests are real—why is Harry Potter in a contest and he’s not real?)<br />    * What is dying?<br />    * Why do some people kill people?<br />    * Where do people die?<br />    * Where are we going to die?<br />    * When am I going to die?<br />    * Why are some people bad?<br />    * Why are some people mean?<br />    * Why do people mess up?<br />    * Why do some people eat meat? (Why do some people eat animals? Why did someone give us a meat cookbook [i.e., a cookbook that’s not totally vegetarian]? Why do some animals eat other animals? Why are some animals mean? Etc.)<br />    * Why are water bottles all different?<br />    * Why are dirigibles bigger than people?</p></blockquote>
<p>Go read the whole thing over at <a href="http://www.firsttheegg.com/2010/02/tricky-questions-my-three-year-olds-burst-of-curiosity-about-death/">first the egg</a>.</p>
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