<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[the feminist librarian]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://thefeministlibrarian.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Anna Clutterbuck-Cook]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://thefeministlibrarian.com/author/feministlib/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[multimedia monday: &quot;but mary his mother she nurses him / and baby jesus fell back to&nbsp;sleep&quot;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>When we were small, my mother sang us an alternate version of the Christmas carol &#8220;Away in a Manger&#8221; because we were upset by the factual error of a baby who supposedly didn&#8217;t cry (being the eldest of three, I knew what a lie this was). In our version, <a href="http://www.carols.org.uk/away_in_a_manger.htm">Away in a Manger</a> went like this:</p>
<div style="text-align:center;">Away in a manger, </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">No crib for His bed </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">The little Lord Jesus </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">Laid down His sweet head </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">The stars in the bright sky</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">Looked down where He lay </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">The little Lord Jesus </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">Asleep on the hay </div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">The cattle are lowing </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">The poor Baby wakes </div>
<div style="text-align:center;">And little Lord Jesus</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">What crying he makes</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;">But Mary his mother</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">She nurses him</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">And baby Jesus</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">Falls back to sleep</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">Needless to say when I joined the Holland Area Youth Chorale as a teenager and tried to insist on singing the song <em>my </em>way it didn&#8217;t go over so well. Not just because it was &#8220;non-traditional&#8221; but because there was nursing! And probably some blasphemous implications that baby Jesus wasn&#8217;t a perfectly angelic being.  But also nursing! (This was the same youth chorale that had issues with the word &#8220;breast&#8221; in a song <em>about a robin</em>. ﻿As in the <em>bird</em>.)</p>
<p>Our contemporary, American culture is so freaked by breastfeeding and I don&#8217;t really get it. I&#8217;ve known enough folks for whom nursing didn&#8217;t work that I know better than to be all &#8220;breastfeeding is the only responsible way to feed your infant&#8221; about it. But I also don&#8217;t understand the politics of disgust and outage that surround nursing in public places.  What is particularly fascinating is to realize how recent a development this is (or rather, how recently the pendulum has swung back from the free-to-be-you-and-me 1970s). Gwen Sharp @ Sociological Images <a href="http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2011/09/26/openly-breastfeeding-on-sesame-street/">posted clips from Seseme Street recently that depicted women matter-of-factly nursing infants on screen</a>. Here&#8217;s one of them: </p>
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