<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Frugal Crafter Blog]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://thefrugalcrafter.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[thefrugalcrafter Lindsay Weirich]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://thefrugalcrafter.wordpress.com/author/thefrugalcrafter/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Turn your &#8220;Buts&#8221; into &#8220;What ifs&#8221; and your &#8220;If onlys&#8221; into &#8220;Why&nbsp;nots?&#8221;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Howdy friends! Today I am talking about excuses. You know, when you want to do something but you talk yourself out of it. For instance &#8220;I want to scrapbook but I don&#8217;t have the space&#8221; of &#8220;If only I had the time and energy to create&#8230;I guess I&#8217;ll watch TV instead.&#8221; But wait! Try this: &#8220;Hey! What if I clear off the coffee table and make a couple of layouts while I watch my favorite TV show!&#8221; and &#8220;Why not put all the supplies I need in a tote or basket and I can bring it to the living room with me and put it in the closet when I am done!&#8221; Now, look at that, you have turned an excuse into a solution.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_9605" style="width: 914px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-9605" data-attachment-id="9605" data-permalink="https://thefrugalcrafter.wordpress.com/2013/08/31/turn-your-buts-into-what-ifs-and-your-if-onlys-into-why-nots/dcf-1-0-1715/" data-orig-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg" data-orig-size="600,680" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DiMAGE 7&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;944850960&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;43.8125&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;DCF 1.0&quot;}" data-image-title="DCF 1.0" data-image-description="" data-medium-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg?w=265" data-large-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg?w=600" class="size-large wp-image-9605" alt="DCF 1.0" src="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg?w=904&#038;h=1024" srcset="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg 600w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg?w=132&amp;h=150 132w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin1.jpg?w=265&amp;h=300 265w" sizes="(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px"   /></a><p id="caption-attachment-9605" class="wp-caption-text">I was so afraid to use the resin that I bought. I kept coming up with reasons why I shouldn&#8217;t. This green frame was one of my first experiments and it turned out great, I&#8217;m so glad I tried it!</p></div>
<p>The other day I was enjoying a cup of joe on the front porch when I was absolutely disgusted by the crud on my railing and ballasts. I thought &#8220;if only I had a power washer, I would have this clean in a  jiffy&#8221; but I changed it to &#8220;Why not get a pail of warm soapy water and wipe down the rails and mop the floor. The girls can help and we will be done in 20 minutes!&#8221; Well, it took a bit longer than that but not much and once you get started (which is the hardest part of any project) it goes pretty quickly.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_9606" style="width: 1034px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-9606" data-attachment-id="9606" data-permalink="https://thefrugalcrafter.wordpress.com/2013/08/31/turn-your-buts-into-what-ifs-and-your-if-onlys-into-why-nots/dcf-1-0-1716/" data-orig-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg" data-orig-size="600,468" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DiMAGE 7&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;944850945&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;16.9375&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;DCF 1.0&quot;}" data-image-title="DCF 1.0" data-image-description="" data-medium-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg?w=600" class="size-large wp-image-9606" alt="DCF 1.0" src="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg?w=1024&#038;h=799" srcset="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg 600w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg?w=150&amp;h=117 150w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/circle_resin2.jpg?w=300&amp;h=234 300w" sizes="(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px"   /></a><p id="caption-attachment-9606" class="wp-caption-text">More of my first resin experiments. I actually had a lot of dangles on this necklace but I changed my mind and took them off and left only these. See, you can change your mind and undo stuff, just because you make something with a supply it doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t undo it if you change your mind.</p></div>
<p>I can understand making excuses to get out of something you don&#8217;t like but why do we make excuses to get out of doing things we love? Maybe we feel guilty spending time on ourselves, or maybe we are afraid of making a mistake, doing something wrong or wasting precious supplies. Newsflash: You will make mistakes, if you don&#8217;t you are not learning. You don&#8217;t even need to be good at something to enjoy the process, for instance I am an awful singer yet I love to sing. You are worth spending time on! Maybe you are afraid of making a mess in a shared space. Why not pull together the supplies for a small project that can easily be tucked away in a box while it is in progress like a jewelry project, cross stitch or watercolor card.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_9604" style="width: 1034px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-9604" data-attachment-id="9604" data-permalink="https://thefrugalcrafter.wordpress.com/2013/08/31/turn-your-buts-into-what-ifs-and-your-if-onlys-into-why-nots/dcf-1-0-1714/" data-orig-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg" data-orig-size="800,600" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DiMAGE 7&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;944854653&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;25.0625&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;100&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;DCF 1.0&quot;}" data-image-title="DCF 1.0" data-image-description="" data-medium-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg?w=800" class="size-large wp-image-9604" alt="DCF 1.0" src="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg?w=1024&#038;h=768" srcset="https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg 800w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg?w=150&amp;h=113 150w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225 300w, https://thefrugalcrafter.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/glitter_charms_2_glazed.jpg?w=768&amp;h=576 768w" sizes="(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px"   /></a><p id="caption-attachment-9604" class="wp-caption-text">Experimentation is good for the soul! Dive in! I love my first glitter pendants too!</p></div>
<p>My point is stop making excuses! The next time you catch yourself saying &#8220;but&#8221; , &#8220;if only&#8221; or &#8220;I wish&#8221; stop and say &#8220;what if&#8230;&#8221;, &#8220;I will&#8230;&#8221; and &#8220;Why not&#8230;&#8221;  no one else is going to make you be creative (well, except me, I&#8217;ll give you a kick in the pants!) except yourself. Don&#8217;t discourage yourself before you start. Pick something you want to do and DO IT! So, if you are feeling inspired I want you to leave a comment and tell me what you are going to make next, don&#8217;t be shy, the act of telling someone and writing it down will help you achieve it! Please let e know when you finish your creation too as I would love to see it. You are worth it! Now, go make something! Til next time happy crafting!</p>
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