<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Yoshizen&#039;s Blog]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[yoshizen]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com/author/yoshizen/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Selflessness &#8211; Detachment]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><strong>&#8221; How to get selfless state of the Mind &#8220;</strong></p>
<p>After reading the previous post &#8221; Selflessness Demonstrated &#8220;,  you may convinced</p>
<p>that the selflessness is nothing special and it is everywhere in our life.</p>
<p>Then you may start a question &#8221; If everybody has selflessness, can all of us make</p>
<p>good Buddhists ?  &#8212;&#8212;- Not quite.</p>
<p>To become a Buddhist, one has to cross over the first varier, which is to learn to brake</p>
<p>off from the Ego, by doing the repetitive practice, unconditionally.</p>
<p>To accept this Duty  unconditionally, and able to keep doing it indicates, you have gave up your Ego.</p>
<p>( May not necessary the proof of  non-Ego, but Not accept is definitely the sign of  Ego )</p>
<p>Keep doing its practice endless times, you become get used with it and able to do without</p>
<p>thinking, and it will became your mundane daily routine.</p>
<p>In order to survive this boring tread-mill, your mind become apathetic, and become</p>
<p>emotionally detached from what you are actuary doing.  &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;( In Neurological term, the</p>
<p>threshold of the signal  became higher, therefore incoming repetitive signal loose the significant impact )</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;It may looks a contradiction, while doing it in full commitment ( so-called mindfulness / full hearted )</p>
<p>but disconnected from the emotion, in the same time able to carry out perfect practice.</p>
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<p>The emotion is not an essential component to do the perfect business,  in most of the situation</p>
<p>it is more of the destruction, otherwise a  Gynecologist couldn&#8217;t do their business.</p>
<p>Another example appeared in the brain scan analysis of the</p>
<p>Alzheimar&#8217;s cases, the reason why a patient loose the ability to recognize a family face is,</p>
<p>its visual signal lost the connection to the emotional region of the brain, while visual cortex  is still intact.</p>
<p>It is the matter of the control of the signal connection or to make association.</p>
<p>Even without making connection, each faculties of the brain can  works perfect.</p>
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<p>As the emotion is directly connected to the basic instincts, such as the feeling of hunger or</p>
<p><strong>I</strong> want to have this, <strong>I</strong> want fuck this woman etc etc, its forms fundamental part of the <strong>Self and Ego.<br />
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<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;First, detached from the raw basic emotion, then connect the signal in the brain</p>
<p>to the Spiritually conceived Notion or Ethos and to the activity of the life , <strong>is the Zen and the Buddhism.</strong></p>
<p>Even though observing the self doing something, without having the emotional connection, it wouldn&#8217;t</p>
<p>produce the conscious of being as the <strong>Self</strong>,   This is <strong>The Selflessness.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Once a person mastered this control, it can be applied to other practice and to the whole life.</strong></p>
<p>( This is why Half Buddhist or Thinking Buddhist couldn&#8217;t see the Buddhism. &#8212;- need to cross the varier first)</p>
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<p>(Some of the reader may not want to agree with  this, as this theory seems (as far as I found) the</p>
<p>first of its kind in the history&#8212;&#8212;-Neuro-scientists would confirm this, soon or later.  But the fact of that the</p>
<p>Zen monk is not emotional is medically tested and established fact&#8212;&#8212; simply nobody ever thought why )</p>
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<p>Fortunately or unfortunately, I went through this first varier in my youth, in the mountain.</p>
<p>To climb the mountain, we just accept the situation, and keep walking, days even a month.</p>
<p>Most of the time, there was no margin to exercise Ego.  We just carry on walking without cry.</p>
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<p>(I&#8217;m going to discuss spiritual (or even super natural) aspects of the Zen in near future)</p>
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