<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Yoshizen&#039;s Blog]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[yoshizen]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com/author/yoshizen/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Girlie  Pictures]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>One of my bad habit is to make a collection</strong></span> &#8212;&#8211; in fact, too many kind of objects, from the stones</p>
<p>I picked up on the top of mountain to ordinary post stamp, small sticker on the fruits, one day it-might-be-</p>
<p>useful kind of all sorts of motor etc.  And I stick those stickers on my PC, Cameras etc etc.  Sigh !   😀</p>
<p>So that, when I made pilgrimage of the Pipe Organ while traveling all over the Europe &#8212;&#8212;</p>
<p>On top of the necessary tourist information and the town map, I&#8217;ve collected the information about</p>
<p>the history of the church and their pipe organ &#8212;&#8212; all together more than 30 Kg.  😀</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</p>
<p>This habit started with a collection of the insects and the plants specimen. ( If you do a lots, naturally</p>
<p>the skill to handle it become sophisticated. &#8212;&#8212; I received prize, many of it )</p>
<p>When I was a photographer, I had somewhat 50 SLR, not necessary I bought, many of them were given</p>
<p>by the manufacturers, as I was doing camera critics as well. &#8212;&#8212; And I have about 50 antique cameras.</p>
<p>(To repair those cameras and make them work &#8212;&#8212; I&#8217;ve learned the skill and the knowledges inside of it)</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;&#8211;</span></p>
<p>So, when I got inter net connection and discovered Net photo-site,  I realized it is a good collection of faces</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;- literally millions of it.  I found a face somewhat resembles a friend in my school time &#8212;&#8211; saved it,</p>
<p>then another one, and so on.</p>
<p>Then I started to accumulate the faces which give me a tick, somewhat pretty but not necessary beautiful</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212; <strong>and started to think why ?</strong></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>Looks very similar but why this one give this impression but why this one doesn&#8217;t ?</strong></span></p>
<p>And end up, now having 30,000 photos.  ( As a by-product, they are good references of body shape for</p>
<p>making sculpture.  Though, when I made Buddha Figure there was no such reference photos, hence</p>
<p>his lung cage has wrong bone structure &#8212;&#8211; never mind it is not an anatomical model.  🙂  )</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;&#8211;</span></p>
<p>Some of those female models showing identical faces in any photos, even keeping exactly the same angle.</p>
<p>And some others are showing very vivid different expressions in each photos.</p>
<p><strong>We know,  we can guess the character of the person from the face </strong>&#8212;&#8212; <strong>and even from the photos.</strong></p>
<p>We only have to be careful not to speak out those observation and judgement because of the so-called PC.</p>
<p>Yet our preference and the attitude toward the individual is judged by the person&#8217;s face and facial</p>
<p>expressions / mannerism / subtle difference in the body languages, since we know it in our subconscious.</p>
<p>And some of the people even shows so-called aura. (No explanation.&#8212;&#8211; I only know it exist as I had seen it )</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212; Whether it is politically correct or not,  I can judge &#8221; I like this photo, and save it.  Oh, no I don&#8217;t want &#8221;</p>
<p>I have no obligation to spare my  PC&#8217;s  memory for unwanted photo. &#8212;&#8212; There can not be a Buddhist&#8217;s</p>
<p>generosity here. Ha ha ha  😀      ( Yet I have an album of skinny bodies collection, even though I hate skinny</p>
<p>body but only for a purpose to see the bone structure in live posture, not by the generosity.   🙂  )</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;&#8212;-</span></p>
<p>Anyhow I just gave a thought on the assumption of, the expression on the photos reflect the</p>
<p>daily behaviour of the person &#8212;&#8212; as those models may one day marry to somebody and live together,</p>
<p>then  <span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>how it would be the relation and the life there ? ? ?</strong></span></p>
<p>Of cause,  even the person who showed identical faces in all the photos  has another face hidden behind.</p>
<p>Though, <strong>it is about her attitude</strong> &#8212;&#8212; to show only the face she believes her best and able to keep it,</p>
<p>this determination and the stiff will. &#8212;&#8212; How do you think if this is your wife ?    As she might be a person</p>
<p>of principle, and able to stick to what she want, hence predictable and may be reliable,<span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong> but is she stable ?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#333399;"><strong>Old wisdom / Common sense says, hard stick breaks.  (When its happens, spectacularly )<br />
</strong></span></p>
<p>In comparison, the person showing wide varieties of expressions &#8212;&#8212; obviously this person has very</p>
<p>live perception and quick response.  Surely,  she is a kind of person we call <span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong> Lively Character.</strong></span></p>
<p>So, naturally we guess, even in the married life, it would be lively and joyful,&#8212;&#8212; but can she reliable ?</p>
<p>She may not necessary very thoughtful and may not be very intelligent, so, it needs to be the husband&#8217;s task</p>
<p>to pay attention. <span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong> Still happy fun-full life may compensate occasional mishap or even a havoc.  😀</strong></span></p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212; When I was asked, I&#8217;ve been giving the same advise to young man, how to look for the best woman,</p>
<p>&#8221; Good lively smile is good, but more importantly, look at the face when a woman expressed her disgust</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;<strong> if that face is still acceptable, go for it.</strong> Since, in the life, not every day is the happy day, time to</p>
<p>time ugly situation would occur,  and in such critical situation, the ugliness of the face,  which you have</p>
<p>to face, of which  woman can not control,  would make it even worse,  so its better avoid&#8221; <span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>(We can make up smily face but can not control the expression of  disgust )</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>In any case, go for a type &#8220;Girls next door&#8221; would be the safe bet. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Better nothing extreme, include the tattoo.  Ha ha ha.  😀 </strong></span><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong><br />
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<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>Strangely,  what type of woman you chose is genetically programmed in our subconscious.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>And often it is similar to your Father&#8217;s taste.  Since, its gene is on the Y-chromosome which</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>is identical to your Father, as Y-chromosome only comes from the Father.</strong></span></p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">You may remember your <strong>first love</strong> in your school time, suddenly you started to like somebody who all </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">your friends said  &#8221; Why such funny girl &#8221; &#8212;&#8212; she was the type you were programmed to choose.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">As human being was originally programmed to get marry 15 years old ( This is why in all the culture,</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">boy&#8217;s initiation is about 15 ) the girl you loved on that time was in fact, you were supposed to get marry.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">Because it was genetically programmed choice, that love was almost chemical, nobody else understood</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">why this girl &#8212;&#8211; still, it was to say Dharma&#8217;s choice.   So, the boy couldn&#8217;t see her objectively. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">It was the unconditional true love (in Buddhist&#8217;s term, this is the Fully Minded Love and in Mushin &#8212;&#8211; </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">Mind of No Mind = without Thinking process ) hence regardless whether she was a funny girl, it was the </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">true love. &#8212;&#8211; to see a girl in objective eyes and consider the other&#8217;s eyes or to compare to Pop Idles etc </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">comes much later &#8212;&#8211; as the boy learns how to override the subconscious judgement / Dharma&#8217;s choice.<br />
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<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">Unfortunately we human being had to adapt and bend this natural choice for <strong>a sake of artificially </strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;"><strong>created social system. </strong>&#8212;&#8211; And we grown up were heavily influenced by the false environment of </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">mass-media and so-called Thinking / social consideration etc etc. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">We lost the eyes to see the truth, and lost the ear to listen the voice of the Dharma in our subconscious.<br />
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<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>So that, to rediscover where your original taste / choice was, can be the first step to </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>see who your true self are. </strong></span>&#8212;&#8212;- (Provided you don&#8217;t waste too much time watching boobs  😀  )<strong><br />
</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">So, it was interesting to see from those thousands of faces, after half century, </span></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><span style="color:#000000;">my own taste haven&#8217;t changed a bit.<br />
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<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>___/\___</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;</span></p>
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