<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Yoshizen&#039;s Blog]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[yoshizen]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com/author/yoshizen/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[ANGER  management]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>I talked about those matter in relation to  Emotion or  Subconscious in many of my old posts.</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>As I wrote there, Emotion is more to do with the chemical / Hormone effects in our body than</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>the matter of what we are thinking. </strong></span></p>
<p><strong>Although there is a funny circle of Chicken and Egg of one&#8217;s Mind and the Chemical.</strong></p>
<p><strong>&#8212;&#8211; which comes first ?</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;</span><br />
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<p>When we are contented, that feeling of being satisfied is created by the Hormone called Serotonin</p>
<p>and the Dopamine. &#8212;&#8211; And the anger was caused by the Noradrenalin.</p>
<p>With the presence of Serotonin the effects of Noradrenalin is suppressed.</p>
<p>Everybody knows, when we are hungry, we tend to get angry. &#8212;&#8211; we are pretty simple animal 😀</p>
<p>Simply because, when we are hungry there is no Serotonin in our brain hence easily get angry.</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Therefore, not get angry, we need to be contented, hence having Serotonin in the brain.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>&#8212;&#8211; Being contented &#8212;&#8211; here comes your Mind-set.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><strong>Non</strong></span></p>
<p>Contentedness is a relative matter and which is dependent to your assessment &#8212;&#8211; assessment between</p>
<p>your expectation and the result or what you got on front of your eyes.</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Literally, the content is in a jar. How content fills the jar is depends on the size of the jar.</strong></span></p>
<p>The same content which fulfil a small jar may look almost empty in the bottom of huge jar.</p>
<p>We just feel how it is full by a glance &#8212;&#8211; and feel either contented or disappointed.</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>So, have a small size of the jar &#8212;&#8211; you always feel full = CONTENTED.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Therefore, plenty flow of Serotonin. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>With a lots of Serotonin, the anger hormone Noradrenalin is suppressed = PEACE of MIND.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">non</span></p>
<p>To have a small jar is, what we called<span style="color:#000080;"><strong> Humble life.</strong></span> And not too greedy nor arrogant.</p>
<p>Settle with small jar seems to be not ambitious and associated with defeatism &#8212;&#8211; <strong>you are wrong.</strong></p>
<p>It is an easy popular deception created by the commercialism.   With its commercialism you are</p>
<p>mislead and infected by the<strong> virus of hunger.</strong></p>
<p>Be positive to be Humble &#8212;&#8211; ( It&#8217;s better than to be in Hunger and Angry dairy life. 🙂 )</p>
<p>What you need is proportional to your size. &#8212;&#8211; your size is what you were born to be.</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>You may have huge jar in one aspect of your life, but small one in the other aspect. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>No one can have everything.</strong>  <strong> And not expect to others, since the other may not have it too.</strong></span></p>
<p>This is What you need to become aware<span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong> WHO YOU ARE.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>And to know this, you need to have clear eyes to see it, listen it, feel it.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Here comes Zen Buddhism to have clear self-awareness.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">Non</span></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a long circle of the Chicken and Egg 😀</p>
<p>You must be convinced <strong>why the<span style="color:#000080;"> Buddhism exist to have Peaceful Life.</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>( Effect of chemicals in our body is a part of the Dharma and the Buddhism.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Buddhism is not dubious mumbo-jumbo, but has clear explanation in science )</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>___/\___</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;</span><br />
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