<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Yoshizen&#039;s Blog]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[yoshizen]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://yoshizen.wordpress.com/author/yoshizen/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Detailed attention to the&nbsp;LIFE]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>I came across a kind of Japanese book review &#8212;&#8211; about a book talking about a small knack,</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>which would make your life more fulfilling. What a gospel. 🙂</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">non</span></p>
<p>Contents itself is nothing new or anything eye-opening.</p>
<p>Such as the way how you staple the papers = the best way to do it, is in angle, so that it would not tear the</p>
<p>paper when a page was flipped &#8212;&#8211; in every small knack to do each dairy practices, in total, it would</p>
<p>smoothing your dairy life, hence the end of a day, you can achieve the life in happier satisfaction.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211; m m m ? Sound familiar ! ?</p>
<p>Familiar yes, thousand of religious, lecturing the life&#8217;s wisdom books are saying the same kind, but this</p>
<p>author has nothing to do with religion. Purely talking about how to do each dairy chore.</p>
<p>In fact, everybody knows something this kind, and even I may able to put some more this and that too.</p>
<p>Such as after cut anything, wash the cooking knife in order not to transfer the smell &#8212;&#8211; think, if your apple</p>
<p>smell onion you&#8217;ve cut a moment ago, or you may not like to use the same knife for salad vegetable which</p>
<p>has been used for cutting a meat.   There might be a possible contamination of germ ?</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">non</span></p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211; A man (and a woman) said, “ I don&#8217;t care because I&#8217;m using different knife”</p>
<p>In fact, I&#8217;m not going to talk about each knack here.   Here, I noticed the mind-set &#8212;&#8211; how people react to</p>
<p>those small advise in general. &#8212;&#8211; Something I found very peculiar among the western people is,</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211;<strong> regardless, if it is good and useful or not, many people just don&#8217;t like to be told.</strong></p>
<p>May be the reason is, it is too simple common-sense = no need to be told by others. And another reason is,</p>
<p><strong>“ I know but may be I don&#8217;t do it because I don&#8217;t care. So, don&#8217;t repeat it to me again”</strong></p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211; laziness is the fundamental Evil here 😀</p>
<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>Though, those kind of small practice is the foundation of the Buddhism.</strong><span style="color:#333333;"> &#8212; you believe or not.</span></span></p>
<p>(For instance, the Japanese Tea Making which was originated from Zen Temple as a</p>
<p>way of the Buddhism study, is a continuous process of small practice )</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">Non</span></p>
<p>Whether it is good or bad, the way which is making most stark contrast in the<strong> children&#8217;s up-bringing</strong></p>
<p><strong>in the west and east is</strong>, &#8212;&#8211; in the west, the children are grown up hearing the words<span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong> “ Superb ! </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong>You are marvellous. You are doing very good ! “</strong></span> (regardless whether the child is doing utter crap</p>
<p>and hopeless, as the parents think, they need to have an encouragement )</p>
<p>In the east, the children are nurtured and taught<span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong> “ No good, you are idiot. Study more “. 😀</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>This would make fundamentally different mind-set</strong> &#8212;&#8211; in the west, it would give pretty strong</p>
<p>ego and the arrogance “ I&#8217;m a lord of my life “ (&#8212;&#8211; though, it is not the case in the most of the person, later</p>
<p>they may depressed and couldn&#8217;t figure out the direction &#8212;&#8211; but it&#8217;s too late to do it again)</p>
<p>In the east, as the children were forced to learn the curriculum regardless he or she is good in it or not &#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p>but, at least they<strong> learn their place and learn to pay attention to what they are facing,</strong></p>
<p>therefore they become good to do what they have learned but not much creativity, still they know how to</p>
<p>follow others (provided, somebody lead them).</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">Non</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Buddhism is based on the eastern psyche = hence accepting and follow the Dharma and</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong> its Teachings, is the starting point.</strong></span></p>
<p>Dharma is not a human invention therefore it has no human-like attitude or speak in human language.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211; because of this, to accept and follow mean, we have to observe first and learn from it.  <span style="color:#000080;"><strong> Then do, </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>what we found necessary to do.   There is no [ I want to do ] or [ This is what I want ] </strong>&#8212;&#8211;<strong> </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>we are not the dominant Force in the Life.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>Do, what was allowed for us to do,</strong><strong> in its best.</strong> &#8212;&#8211;<strong> down to the minute detail.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">non</span></p>
<p>When you are cutting an onion, you ARE the man cutting an onion = It is your whole life of</p>
<p>the man cutting onion, on the moment. (this is what Buddhism calls [ Mindfulness] and [ Ichijo] )</p>
<p>When you got used to observe the life in your open-eyes (not the eyes to project your idea / Ego)</p>
<p>you start to see what is a better way to do.   And keep doing it, it would become your routine, soon</p>
<p>you are able to do it without thinking = in Mushin =<span style="color:#000080;"><strong> You are right path to the Enlightenment.</strong></span></p>
<p>( It is simple, when you do every thing in better way down to the detail, of cause the result would be</p>
<p><span style="color:#000080;"><strong>far better = naturally you succeed in your life / fulfilment of the life)</strong></span></p>
<p>&#8212;&#8211; So, to start, wash your knife every time after use. 🙂</p>
<p>( If you can&#8217;t keep even your knife in the best condition, how you can expect</p>
<p>to achieve anything better in your life)</p>
<p>___/\___</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">&#8212;</span></p>
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